tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65961461158785892182024-02-20T12:03:14.030-08:00Safe Kids Now BlogJOIN US: To restore the HEART of community to protect children! National campaign to keep children, families and neighborhoods safe!Safe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.comBlogger108125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-79298846531828068712023-08-29T13:48:00.001-07:002023-08-29T13:48:42.830-07:00The Power of Rap Music - IMG 7853<iframe width="480" height="270" src="https://youtube.com/embed/h_lI8FLq4-0?si=fsc4oGruarz2W5v7" frameborder="0"></iframe>Safe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-87778890731635298152013-12-12T15:02:00.000-08:002013-12-13T13:42:22.213-08:00After SANDY HOOK: Look Beyond Gun Control!<b>A year ago, Americans were shocked by the tragic loss of 20 children and 6 teachers at Sandy Hook Elementary School.</b> Are you surprised Congress has not passed any new gun control laws? If legislators can’t pass laws, perhaps, we need to focus in a different direction!<br />
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All school shooters and violent gang members have something in common. Adam Lanza, the Sandy Hook shooter, was an angry, lonely, troubled young man who was socially isolated with access to guns and violent video games. Just like other violent young men, he lacked strong male role models in his life and a neighborhood and community support system. He didn’t have any spiritual guidance to help develop his coping skills in order to handle his emotions. He was a candidate for mental problems and violent behavior.<br />
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If we are going to stop gun violence, let’s start a discussion on what city leaders can do to help strengthen families. <br />
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<b>As a crime and violence prevention specialist for 38 years,</b> I see a critical need to address fear and social isolation that drives people to buy guns. When we understand the importance of involvement and neighborhood responsibility, we can restore a sense of community. Disconnected families will discover they are not alone. New neighborhood mentors and role models will emerge as neighbors build trust. Youth need people who care and offer support to help them reach their potential.<br />
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Connected and involved neighbors can help cities save millions of dollars. Citizens would no longer feel the need to buy a gun for protection as they help youth stay out of the criminal justice system. Everyone benefits. <br />
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<b>WHAT ELECTED, CIVIC AND RELIGIOUS LEADERS CAN DO</b> to create positive, citywide change!<br />
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Civic and religious leaders can talk to local elected officials about creating a…<br />
Citizens’ Task Force to focus on strengthening families.<br />
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<b>GOAL: </b>Strengthen families through neighborhood support and encourage healthy role models for youth! Citizen involvement reduces fear, anger, stress and isolation, as neighbors work together and build trust.<br />
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<b>HOW?</b> Elected and religious leaders have the ability to influence citizens to take charge of their neighborhood safety, which will help strengthen families.<br />
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<b>WHY?</b> In cities large and small, families experience divorce, bullying, domestic violence, child abuse, and drug and alcohol abuse. When neighbors get connected, they can help restore a stronger sense of community support.<br />
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<b>WHO?</b> Encourage city leaders to appoint a volunteer citizens’ or youth task force to develop a plan to help residents get connected. Depending on city population, appoint a group of 8 to 10 community “doers” to discuss local concerns and focus on a plan of action.<br />
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<b>RESIDENTS NEED ENCOURAGEMENT AND LEADERSHIP:</b><br />
Task Force members can take an active role in speaking to schools, civic and religious groups about the plan. For example: “Adopt-A-Block” can be implemented citywide. Encourage adults and youth to conduct a neighborhood survey. Get willing neighbors together and appoint leaders. Evaluate results and address concerns. <br />
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<b>Ideas to get more neighbors and youth involved:</b><br />
- Clean up graffiti and/or the neighborhood<br />
- Plan a potluck Block Party or social gathering<br />
- Hold an emergency Preparedness meeting<br />
- Moms organize a baby-sitting co-op<br />
- Plant a community garden<br />
- Paint house numbers on curbs (Project for teens)<br />
- Offer leadership training <br />
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Reducing fear and building trust is a long-range approach to stopping gun violence. <b>We can no longer afford to ignore the importance of family support and neighborhood involvement if we are going to keep citizens safe and protect our children. <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEzYzRlvVdEOyuCfZmpKYoXBk2k_Rv2MsB8kpw2n7pFZZxEH5BaakgPvRVJEsmZhHcjn70iN9V3jAnJpYnYdN6ki1qvW2Pchfllwh2dq1trqbq0Uhrzdh4XHnXxWhNYekP7zHK5Pv9-6Nf/s1600/NewtownChildren.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEzYzRlvVdEOyuCfZmpKYoXBk2k_Rv2MsB8kpw2n7pFZZxEH5BaakgPvRVJEsmZhHcjn70iN9V3jAnJpYnYdN6ki1qvW2Pchfllwh2dq1trqbq0Uhrzdh4XHnXxWhNYekP7zHK5Pv9-6Nf/s320/NewtownChildren.jpeg" /></a></div></b><br />
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Stephanie L. Mann, Crime and Violence Prevention Consultant<br />
Safe Kids Now<br />
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<b>The Digital Age</b> has become a great tool to get information in the palm of our hands. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, and iMessage are all on our phones. People are becoming addicted to these social networking sites, and it is affecting their interpersonal relationship with people. It’s so easy to be separated by a screen and a keyboard rather than deal with a person in front of you. <br />
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<b>Andrew Chow, a sophomore</b> in Lafayette, CA said <i>“I think most teenagers are abusing the main purpose of using mobile phones which is using the device as a phone. Teens text or use Facebook and log into social networks too often, getting distracted from school work and other more important priorities.”<br />
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</i> How much time do you spend on your social networking site than actually talking face to face with your friends? Phones were originally created to help us communicate with others when we couldn’t see them in person. It’s not the phones that are abusive; it’s how people use them that makes it abusive. <br />
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It seems that these social networking sites are becoming tools used for bullying. Classmate Isabel Artiaga thinks bullying <i>“is definitely a phase that people go through, especially at this age.”</i> <b> Statistics show that 56% of teens have once been the target of a cyber-bullying activity.</b> Sticks and stones will break your bones, but words and pictures will hurt your child’s feelings. Teens are using Facebook to harass their peers. <br />
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It’s amazing what horrible things these teens say to others on the internet, in order to lower people’s self-esteem. A sixth grader commented “Sometimes bullying doesn’t seem like such a big deal just one time, but when it happens repetitively, it can be really depressing for people.” <br />
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<b>What parents can do is talk to their children about what is going on with them online.</b> They should sit down with their kids and ask “what would you want me (your parent) if you were being cyber-bullied. Parry Aftab, a New-Jersey-based lawyer and expert on bullying, advocates the <b>‘stop, block and tell’<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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To help your child stay balanced, centered and safe, check out www.safekidsnow.com/streetsafekids Safe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-78233631959447573212013-06-22T13:29:00.000-07:002013-06-22T13:29:24.575-07:00PREVENT Child Sexual Abuse-Empower children<b>2 minute REPORT: The 7 MYTHS</b> that keep adults for discussing child sexual abuse.
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Children will not be victims if you empower them.
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Find out how to raise happy, healthy, nonviolent children.
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We can stop terrorists if we understand the primitive mind and what motivates them!
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Here are some ideas to help you empower children and keep them safe.
Agree or Disagree...Add your comment!Safe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-74652801318833671022013-04-29T14:04:00.000-07:002013-04-29T14:04:47.679-07:00BOSTON Strong-The LessonSPIRITUAL WARFARE!
Times have changed and Americans need to change to meet the challenge!
Why are religious fanatics attacking us and what 3 things can we do to prevent another attack and create PEACE?
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HERE ARE SOME IDEAS TO HELP YOU CREATE A SAFER CITY!
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For more information contact us at: safeneighborhoods@gmail.comSafe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-19226322569310686042013-04-19T15:06:00.000-07:002013-04-19T15:06:15.534-07:00Terror in Boston - Why Men Kill!Why would anyone want to kill or maim innocent people?
Over the years, as a crime and violence prevention specialist, I've seen many off-centered men without their own identity. The terror in Boston, is just one more example.
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Here are 2 suggestions to help men find their own identity so they don't become self-destructive.
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Questions: Contact us at: safeneighborhoods@gmail.com Safe Kids Now National Networkhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13995790185623031699noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6596146115878589218.post-5946759471558315202013-04-05T12:01:00.000-07:002013-04-05T12:01:17.211-07:00Stop Gun Violence: Strengthen FamiliesEvery day we hear news stories about GUN VIOLENCE! Since the terrible tragedy at Sandy Hook, the media has focused on GUN CONTROL which divides Americans. City leaders have the power to bring people together to reduce fear and stop gun violence.
Find out what community leaders can do to strengthen families.
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When we strengthen families with supportive neighbors, we can greatly reduce youth violence!
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ADULTS AND PARENTS: 4 steps YOU can take to keep children safe.<br />
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(Published by the Bay Area News Group – Contra Costa Times 8-12-12)<br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The murder of 26 at Sandy
Hook School in Newtown CT and 12 killed with 58 wounded at a theater in
Aurora, CO are national tragedies sparking debate on gun control.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Based on my experience as a crime and
violence prevention consultant, over the past 35 years, I see a need to share
what I have learned about violence. (Remove my info and put in your info)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">The seed for violent
behavior begins at home. Parents good or bad are teachers. Disconnected
families in conflict often fail to teach children how to develop healthy
relationships. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Mental, physical or
sexual abuse can make even the most intelligent child, anti-social. If
children’s needs are not met, they can be thrown off balance resulting in anger
and feeling powerless. These children can become targets for abuse at school,
becoming isolated and alone.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Peers and society also
influence impressionable youth. The breakdown in American culture has created a
“perfect storm” for violent behavior. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The breakdown of the family</span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Family conflict, divorce
and neglect can create confusion for children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They often suffer in silence or become bullies with little
compassion for others. If adults don’t listen, set boundaries and calmly
discipline children, they can become frustrated and angry. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Without guidance and
emotional support, children may fail to mature emotionally and often alienate
classmates. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Children who excel in
school can develop an inflated ego and feel smarter than others. Lacking
self-awareness, a small percentage of youth seek revenge to get back at society
for the pain they suffer. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Without a conscience,
emotionally unstable youth can become obsessed and play “god” in other people’s
lives, which can turn deadly. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The breakdown of neighborhoods</span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">In many cities,
neighbors are strangers. They expect someone else to solve problems and don’t
see their role in keeping the neighborhood safe. This attitude creates social
isolation with no check or balance on youthful misbehavior that can develop at
an early age. Neighbors must become role models and demonstrate an interest in
neighborhood kids. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The breakdown within cities</span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Disconnected residents
allow fear to divide and conquer. Cities deteriorate as prostitutes, drug
dealers, gangs and the homeless take over the streets. Neighbors don’t report
criminal behavior and may even protect criminals.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Crime goes unchecked which allows gangs to fill the void. Without
adult leadership, youth may turn to drugs, sex or other addictions to feel good
while everyone else feels powerless!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The breakdown of values in the media</span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Movies and television
promote sex and violence because it sells. The entertainment industry reinforces
human weaknesses. Children are desensitized as immature youth engage in sex and
violence without understanding the consequences as moral values disappear.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We become what we promote as
disconnected youth feel angry, alone and nobody cares.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">The breakdown within the religious community</span></h2>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">There are thousands of
churches, temples and synagogues in America; however, they don’t work together
to inform the community about the power of the human spirit. During the past 50
years, the religious community lost their influence following numerous scandals
including pastors stealing from congregations and the abuse of children. Many
churches become political action groups as religious leaders did little to
bring the community together, spread the need for spiritual values or
demonstrate the power of, “Love thy Neighbor.” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;"><b>What can we do to
stop the violence?</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Community support
strengthens families and helps parents raise successful children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Here are two things you can do today: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">- First, create a
network of support around children to help them learn how to develop healthy
relationships.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Group participation
teaches children to respect others and develop self-control.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Network with friends and neighbors, and
get children involved in a variety of activities.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">- Second, find emotional
support for children at a house of worship of your choice. Help children
discover their spiritual center so they don’t become bullies or victims.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Children can discover their identity
and become responsible and self-aware.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>They will learn how to get along with peers and become better citizens.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Gun control is not the
solution to this complex problem!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Government cannot fill the void with more laws or increasing control
over American lives. Concerned citizens must work together to strengthen
families, organize to make neighborhoods safe for children and get involved to
make communities peaceful places to live. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Everyone will benefit as
children grow up healthy, happy and able to reach their potential. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica;">Crime and Violence
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What was missing in his life? What can you do to make sure boys do not become violent?
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We need to bring Americans together, not divide the country!
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Today in USA: 300,000,000 guns in circulation! <br />
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Americans are divided over GUNS! Will more gun laws protect our children?<br />
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IT IS UP TO ALL OF US TO PROTECT CHILDREN!<br />
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<b>"Beyond GUN Control"</b> Tell us what you think! This is your country!<br />
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<b>Comment from Ed Delph in Arizona</b>
"It is getting pretty tough out there. The more DC legislates the worse it will get. To try and have a behavior change without a family values change will never work. It is amazing how they want to go after the gun rather than the values. People have always had lots of guns in this country. What has changed is humanism has changed the values...from constructive to destructive...."
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Over the years...What went wrong? Why are American young men killing innocent people and children on our streets and in our schools, malls and places of worship?<br />
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WE CAN DO BETTER AMERICA! How sad! Another national crisis as we lay to rest 20 children and 6 adults in Newtown, Conn. We must move beyond politicians and gun control to stop violent behavior in our cities and now...a small community. I invite you will add your ideas and comments!<br />
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1 in 3 women are victims of domestic violence. The odds are...you know someone who is a victim of abuse!<br />
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Here are the 4 steps in the Cycle of Abuse. <br />
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Involved children can smooth out life's journey! Parents will have less stress and anxiety because children have the tools to make good choices to help them reach their potential.<br />
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BLUE CHILD, victim child CENTERED (safer) CHILD RED CHILD, bully child<br />
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Americans know that CHILDREN are greatly influenced by Hollywood, TV and the media! How to reduce the sexualization of American youth? What we can do! <br />
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